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Anxiety, Career Choice and Aptitudes! PART II

  
  
  
  
  
  

Career after collegeThis blog post covers part II of an article published by Dr. Tavantzis in the Highlands Ability Battery newsletter.  The article deals with career anxiety of 'quarter-lifers', young adults who are just beginning their work life....

 

Young Adulthood

During this stage, Donald Super – and most career theorists would agree --
considers that the most significant developmental task is Establishment. Young adults go through a series of "trial" jobs (Exploration Stage), before establishing themselves in what seems a stable career. On both sides of the Establishment stage they meet with a series of crises when they are forced to find answers to the basic questions life poses. At each crisis or turning point, life poses the same essential questions to each of us, and we have to find new answers as we outgrow our last ones. The questions are:
 
1.    How can I best contribute or be productive?
2.    How do I find satisfaction and, yes, even passion in my work?
3.    How do I balance work and love (my intimate relationships)?
 
This process of establishing oneself is the primary task associated with young adulthood. Once stabilized, Consolidation and Advancement become the next developmental tasks.

In this stage you are faced with the consequences of entering and completing college. You have been in two worlds (high school and college) populated primarily by your peers, and you are suddenly launched to a place where you need to find meaningful work. At the same time, you face hearing the voices of your parents, and seeing your own family going through changes. You may even understand that they have not stood, frozen in time, while you were in college during those 4 (or was it 5) years! And in the midst of all this, you still need to focus on becoming your own person, the main event in your life. To become your own person, you need to continue acquiring self-knowledge. However, while the basic issues are the same today perhaps what has changed most is the length of time of this stage, as well as its character!

Key Themes Impacting Young Adults
Some key themes that reflect the lengthening and complexity of this life phase emerge from our research (see Transition to Adulthood, Spring 2010). They are:

    Need for higher education
    Life expectancy expanding
    Financially greater challenges in establishing oneself
    Cultural change in attitudes towards sex
    Greater focus on personal development and maturity

All these result in the need of young adults for more ongoing support from their parents to help them launch their careers successfully. The old markers of 18 or 21 years of age are now meaningless. The notice we used to hear from parents (hopefully no longer) “once you are 21 you are on your own” no longer makes sense. The period we are in now in resembles more the pre-industrial world in which independence was acquired over a longer period of time, and within the confines of the supportive family of origin.

“Changes in the coming-of-age schedule are, in fact, nothing new. A century or more ago, the transition to adulthood was also a protracted affair. In an agriculture-based economy, it took many young adults some time to gain the wherewithal to leave home and form a family… Today young adults take far longer to reach economic and social maturity than their contemporaries did five or six decades ago. In large part, this shift is attributable to the expansion of higher education beginning in the late 1960s.”(Furstenberg, 2010).

Unfortunately, as Furstenberg (2010) and others point out, societal supports for these changes are non-existent.  Mass media recognized the gap and came up with pejorative labels that made it seem that we were experiencing a breakdown in personal character, calling young adults who return home ‘boomerangers’ and parents who intervening in the college or work life of their children ‘helicopter’ parents.  What is often not addressed is that young adults in their senior high school years are continuing to make decisions with little basic information (Career Institute for Education and Workforce Development, 2002), or that “too few depart high school with the agility, self-reliance, critical-thinking…needed to adapt in the future” (Feller, 2003). From our personal experience and conversations with students ‘things don’t get much better in college’.

TO BE CONTINUED...


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Career Puzzles to Navigate: How to start putting the pieces together

Picture doing a 500 piece puzzle as a child. This could be a very challenging puzzle but you always had the colorful box that showed you how the puzzle would look upon completion but it was still tough. Now imagine you are given the same puzzle pieces but no picture to guide you! Or you may even wonder if you have all the pieces!

Navigating your career trajectory is now more than ever in your hands.  It is a puzzle that we are often left to work out on our own without knowing if we even have all the pieces, let alone a blueprint! Recently working with a group of working adults (ages 25-55) who are actively engaged in reflecting and navigating their careers (through taking a seminar I offer called Personal Strategic Planning) they are asked to do many activities during this 30 hour intense over 2 ½ week course.  The objective of the course is to breakdown the narrative or story we tell ourselves about our careers, our choices, then look at our personal data through multiple lenses and come up with a different story or narrative-one that is based now on our strengths as well as 7 other key factors. This semi-structured program results in powerful self-discovery.

The course is organized by our 8 Factor model or the Whole Person Model (for more see www.IMDLeadership.com). Briefly here is how the model works: each participant examines and collect data from each of the following 8 factors Career Development Cycle, Natural Abilities, Skills, Interests, Values, Family of Origin, Personal Style and Goals. This is accomplished through semi-structured exercises and group discussions to assist each participant into delving deeper into a specific factor and therefore their career choices. This process, time and time again over the past 15 years and hundreds of participants yields consistent and excellent results! Today, I wanted to mention just one activity that strikes me as quite significant!

One of the activities is to write a journal and reflect on the specific exercise or factor covered during the last 3 hr session. This gives each participant an opportunity to engage in reflection, in effect to share with themselves, as well as me on how they are putting the material together for themselves. In my (usually) nonjudgmental responses I try to encourage practical applications as well as looking and going beyond their usual narrative of their life. For instance, Sarah writes,

“Another key thing I learned in Thursday's class was how I might, as I develop a better understanding of my abilities, interact with others differently or adapt my own behaviors to best suit the situation.  For example, if I were given an assignment yesterday to develop a relationship with the Managers within the departments I support...I would have a problem getting started because I would have primarily perceived it as a social interaction and a draining activity requiring vague and even unrealistic goals.  But today, understanding my strong Introversion, Idea Productivity, Spatial Relations Visualization and Rhythm Memory; I might approach it differently.  For example I might have a series of brief meetings rather than long meetings, I might brainstorm to look for unique ways to develop the relationship, think of a tangible way to measure the successes or create structure from the relationship and suggest planning a trip or hands-on meeting with the managers rather than just have conversations or e-mails with them.   

This is a fabulous small example of the immediate major impact knowing one’s abilities can make. And, remember, your abilities are just a piece of the puzzle to help you navigate your career.