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Anxiety, Career Choice and Aptitudes!

  
  
  
  
  
  

The folDr. Thomas Tavantzislowing article was published in the Highlands Ability Battery Forum By Dr Thomas N. Tavantzis, CEO Innovative Management Development, Adjunct Faculty, Organizational Development and Leadership, Saint Joseph’s University. It it being re-published here in two parts.  This is PART I.


Three students – Gail 29, John 26, and Sam 21 – though of different ages, share much in common. They are in the midst of developing themselves so they can successfully launch their careers and, well, their lives! Each is still single, all live independently from their parents (Sam is in college) while experiencing (considerable) ongoing parental support. They all share trying to develop themselves as people, finding careers they can be passionate about, but all appear stuck, in large part, from the consequences of too little self-knowledge. They’re grasping for information. How do I go about making decisions? How do I problem-solve? What are my learning styles? What work environment do I want? What are my values? My impact on others? My emotional resources? How do I learn the basics for self-management?

A recent article in the Philadelphia Inquirer called ’Quarterlife: [It] Gets A Whole Lot Harder’ discusses the challenges faced by young adults at the quarter point of their lives. My first reaction was: a whole lot harder than what? Given that I am past 2 quarter lives (or at my half-life), a father of 3 “quarter-lifers’ and constantly around “quarter-lifers’, I think I can safely say that having a period of my life described by the label Quarter-life strikes me at first as yet another useless marketing label created to sell a book. On second thought, maybe it does serve a purpose. Perhaps it can serve to demarcate a clearer time in life. Today, figuring out life in the midst of its complexity and chaos is a challenge for everyone, including quarter-lifers, especially if one clings to outdated and rigid ideas about young adults.


Current World
Right now we are in the midst of several disasters simultaneously: BP, 2 wars, a poor economy, terrorism, perhaps another recession, job loss, catastrophic climate change, a private sector rift with ethics issues driven by greed run amok, while Government is seen – strangely enough – as both overly powerful and intrusive, and ineffectual and broken. Does that sum it up? This all while continuing scientific and technological change inundates us daily. These major external issues only serve to heighten our overall anxiety and filter anxiety down to the young adults planning a direction for their lives. They face a planning process which is already compounded by the usual challenges of the Quarter-lifer (ages 20-30) – lack of self-knowledge, confusion about work-roles, fear of commitment, helplessness, and the sense of frustration caused by instability and change. Everyone ends up at wit’s end in this phase of the Quarter-life, including (and perhaps especially), the young adult’s parent(s)! For the Quarter-lifer, the central challenge only heightens the importance of staying focused on what needs to done. The good news is that, no matter what the problems facing society or the economy, the basic issues facing the Quarter-lifer remain the same: his or her main task at this phase of life is still to develop and refine a vision or a blueprint for a happy and productive life ahead.


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Career Puzzles to Navigate: How to start putting the pieces together

Picture doing a 500 piece puzzle as a child. This could be a very challenging puzzle but you always had the colorful box that showed you how the puzzle would look upon completion but it was still tough. Now imagine you are given the same puzzle pieces but no picture to guide you! Or you may even wonder if you have all the pieces!

Navigating your career trajectory is now more than ever in your hands.  It is a puzzle that we are often left to work out on our own without knowing if we even have all the pieces, let alone a blueprint! Recently working with a group of working adults (ages 25-55) who are actively engaged in reflecting and navigating their careers (through taking a seminar I offer called Personal Strategic Planning) they are asked to do many activities during this 30 hour intense over 2 ½ week course.  The objective of the course is to breakdown the narrative or story we tell ourselves about our careers, our choices, then look at our personal data through multiple lenses and come up with a different story or narrative-one that is based now on our strengths as well as 7 other key factors. This semi-structured program results in powerful self-discovery.

The course is organized by our 8 Factor model or the Whole Person Model (for more see www.IMDLeadership.com). Briefly here is how the model works: each participant examines and collect data from each of the following 8 factors Career Development Cycle, Natural Abilities, Skills, Interests, Values, Family of Origin, Personal Style and Goals. This is accomplished through semi-structured exercises and group discussions to assist each participant into delving deeper into a specific factor and therefore their career choices. This process, time and time again over the past 15 years and hundreds of participants yields consistent and excellent results! Today, I wanted to mention just one activity that strikes me as quite significant!

One of the activities is to write a journal and reflect on the specific exercise or factor covered during the last 3 hr session. This gives each participant an opportunity to engage in reflection, in effect to share with themselves, as well as me on how they are putting the material together for themselves. In my (usually) nonjudgmental responses I try to encourage practical applications as well as looking and going beyond their usual narrative of their life. For instance, Sarah writes,

“Another key thing I learned in Thursday's class was how I might, as I develop a better understanding of my abilities, interact with others differently or adapt my own behaviors to best suit the situation.  For example, if I were given an assignment yesterday to develop a relationship with the Managers within the departments I support...I would have a problem getting started because I would have primarily perceived it as a social interaction and a draining activity requiring vague and even unrealistic goals.  But today, understanding my strong Introversion, Idea Productivity, Spatial Relations Visualization and Rhythm Memory; I might approach it differently.  For example I might have a series of brief meetings rather than long meetings, I might brainstorm to look for unique ways to develop the relationship, think of a tangible way to measure the successes or create structure from the relationship and suggest planning a trip or hands-on meeting with the managers rather than just have conversations or e-mails with them.   

This is a fabulous small example of the immediate major impact knowing one’s abilities can make. And, remember, your abilities are just a piece of the puzzle to help you navigate your career.