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How To Achieve Work-Life Balance

  
  
  
  
  
  

Free yourself from your work system self to look at your career trajectory, your work life balance!

 

As I compose a flyer announcing our upcoming July workshop in Aliki, Paros Island, Greece, a flood of memorable participant experiences fills my head. For instance,  I recall vividly four years ago, the experience of a young German scientist, Manfred, from a global Pharma company. Manfred was at a crossroads and needed some time to reflect and consider his options. Considered a High Potential, he was in the midst of deciding what would be his next move. Would he advance on as a technical scientist or move into the ranks of management? Fortunately he had a leader who had the ability to listen carefully, understand, and assist her people in developing themselves. Given his manager’s previous experience with IMD’s development programs, Manfred was then offered the opportunity of IMD’s program on Paros.

His response to our consultation on his results from The Highlands Ability Battery assessment http://www.highlandslifeandcareercenter.com/assessment.phpwas his first revelation.  He got his question answered. He heard about how his hard-wired strengths would contribute to his possible roles. He then heard the challenges inherent in his strengths in his role options.  However, while he did get the answers, he needed to be reminded that making a decision without considering the other 7 factors would be a potential error! highlands ability test, highlands aptitude battery, highlands ability battery 

When we are experiencing career or life anxiety all too often it seems to me that we all look for the quick fix to reduce the discomfort we are experiencing! Like fast food it is short-lived and not terribly good for us or likely to sustain us. Manfred was at that moment, having received his Ability Battery results and got what he considered was the immediate answer to his question -"Yes, stay a scientist, stay technical"was ready to pack it in without hearing the rest of his own story.

Manfred, nor any of us, are reducible to one dimension or one factor. It is just hard to try to capture our complexity and think of ourselves in multiple ways --The Highlands Ability Battery. After holding him back and asking him to stay open for several more days, and as the workshop progressed he started to see his bigger picture-all the other factors that we could systemically look at and ask the participant to attempt to integrate into a larger, newer, more up to date narrative.

I leave you with 2 questions I struggle with myself and that others, like Manfred, do as well. 1) How often do you find yourself seeing only one dimension of who you are and 2) how do you communicate your complexity to others? 


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Career Puzzles to Navigate: How to start putting the pieces together

Picture doing a 500 piece puzzle as a child. This could be a very challenging puzzle but you always had the colorful box that showed you how the puzzle would look upon completion but it was still tough. Now imagine you are given the same puzzle pieces but no picture to guide you! Or you may even wonder if you have all the pieces!

Navigating your career trajectory is now more than ever in your hands.  It is a puzzle that we are often left to work out on our own without knowing if we even have all the pieces, let alone a blueprint! Recently working with a group of working adults (ages 25-55) who are actively engaged in reflecting and navigating their careers (through taking a seminar I offer called Personal Strategic Planning) they are asked to do many activities during this 30 hour intense over 2 ½ week course.  The objective of the course is to breakdown the narrative or story we tell ourselves about our careers, our choices, then look at our personal data through multiple lenses and come up with a different story or narrative-one that is based now on our strengths as well as 7 other key factors. This semi-structured program results in powerful self-discovery.

The course is organized by our 8 Factor model or the Whole Person Model (for more see www.IMDLeadership.com). Briefly here is how the model works: each participant examines and collect data from each of the following 8 factors Career Development Cycle, Natural Abilities, Skills, Interests, Values, Family of Origin, Personal Style and Goals. This is accomplished through semi-structured exercises and group discussions to assist each participant into delving deeper into a specific factor and therefore their career choices. This process, time and time again over the past 15 years and hundreds of participants yields consistent and excellent results! Today, I wanted to mention just one activity that strikes me as quite significant!

One of the activities is to write a journal and reflect on the specific exercise or factor covered during the last 3 hr session. This gives each participant an opportunity to engage in reflection, in effect to share with themselves, as well as me on how they are putting the material together for themselves. In my (usually) nonjudgmental responses I try to encourage practical applications as well as looking and going beyond their usual narrative of their life. For instance, Sarah writes,

“Another key thing I learned in Thursday's class was how I might, as I develop a better understanding of my abilities, interact with others differently or adapt my own behaviors to best suit the situation.  For example, if I were given an assignment yesterday to develop a relationship with the Managers within the departments I support...I would have a problem getting started because I would have primarily perceived it as a social interaction and a draining activity requiring vague and even unrealistic goals.  But today, understanding my strong Introversion, Idea Productivity, Spatial Relations Visualization and Rhythm Memory; I might approach it differently.  For example I might have a series of brief meetings rather than long meetings, I might brainstorm to look for unique ways to develop the relationship, think of a tangible way to measure the successes or create structure from the relationship and suggest planning a trip or hands-on meeting with the managers rather than just have conversations or e-mails with them.   

This is a fabulous small example of the immediate major impact knowing one’s abilities can make. And, remember, your abilities are just a piece of the puzzle to help you navigate your career.